Long Beach Island, aka LBI, is one of those places that you either are in on the secret, or you are just lost completely. When I lived in New York City, it was our summer haven. We were fortunate to have a friend with a beach house, and they were generous enough to let us all trek out there for a weekend or two every summer. Our trips were very post-college expected chaos – one of the rooms had bunk beds and we would cram everyone in. If you didn’t fit on a bunk bed, you brought a sleeping bag or an air mattress. Showers were cold because there was never enough hot water, and when we left, we needed a vacation from our vacation. As more of a grown up (are we ever REALLY grown ups?), I can look back on those trips with fondness, but also with a “oh hells no I’m never doing that again” nostalgia.

LBI is a tiny island equidistant from Philadelphia and New York – about an 1.5 drive from either. From the southern tip of the island, you can see the lights of Atlantic City. We also always used to joke that you can see the weather coming an hour early. Long Beach Island has an untouched feel to it – yes, it’s touristy, but it’s the antithesis of Atlantic City. Bars aren’t open late, there’s no major boardwalk, and people are there mostly to relax at the beach. There is a waterpark with waterslides, but it’s not the focus of the island. There’s only one way on the island – a single bridge connecting to the mainland – so it really feels like you’re in a full beach town. Once there, people tend to walk or bike places, because cars aren’t necessary, unless you’re heading to extreme ends of the island.
I almost wish I wasn’t posting this blog, because LBI feels so hidden. Yes, the joke when you get off the bridge is “go right for the rich, go left for the richer,” but unlike places such as Newport or Nantucket, the wealth doesn’t feel flaunted. Rather, it feels like a place people go to genuinely slow down and relax.
Normally, here is where I’d tell you how to spend the ideal day, but honestly, I say go visit LBI and just go to the beach. Because everyone needs a beach day. Maybe, if you’re up for it, play a little mini golf. Ok, fine, go see a lighthouse for $5 (you all know how I feel about lighthouses!)

Where to stay:
* Hotel LBI
* Surf City Hotel
* The Hideaway
Where to eat:
* Ship Bottom Shellfish
* Uncle Will’s (the braised short rib Benedict. NOMS.)
* Wally’s
Happy Travels!

















































